Friday, December 10, 2010

Lost temper


Do you always lost temper in your life?
Yes, I do.
At last time, I will always gave vent to my parent, my friend.
I really failed to control my temper,
easily think negative thing.
Make me always lost my temper.
I think no matter how angry you are,
there is no reason to give vent to people that around you.
Although I have done this before..==!!

But, I hope to change it, any ways to control my bad temper?
I think I should be take a deep breath before give vent to others.
I do know that, once it happened, no way to turn back.
It maybe one of the key that make our relationship broke.

4 comments:

SHeLYN said...

ya...lou tai...
u're right...
its not the key to broken relationship...
coz if you really love someone and he really loves u too, no matter what temper you have, he will always accept and forgive u...
even if you lose temper easily he will always advise u to keep cool...
he will always there for u...
(:
don wory lou tai...
if you really can think,you will change your hot temper...
;D
i do have bad temper sometimes,but it is on us whether to change it or not...
gambate...
(:

牡羊座的我~ said...

wa-jiao, really free now ya...
this was the longest comment you leave ya..^^
but sometime you know he also have his own temper, i know if i too over, one day he will "beh tahan" me...XP
that's why i wanna change it before he reach his limit~XD

美婷 said...

有时侯,我反而会觉得当一个人如果会发脾气代表

他/她对事物的反应是真实
他/她不善于去掩饰自己的真实心情
也可以说不会做做,
也或许因为这样而伤害他/她人的内心感受,
对我而言,伪装自己真实的一面反而会带给自己痛苦,
刻意把自己真实的一面埋藏起来不让他/她人发现更糟糕,
要解决问题其实也有方法,就是:
当有这种感觉时尝试用讨论的方式去了解他/她人同时了解自己。

牡羊座的我~ said...

可能你会觉得不会掩饰,不会做作是优点。
可是在踏出社会后,却会成为缺点。
^^
我记得有个人说过:
我的脾气不好,这是我的缺点,
可是如果我懂得掩饰我的脾气,这将会是我的优点。

所以,掩饰未必是坏事~看你用什么角度去看罢了~

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