眼神交流

最近看到有一本书是这样写的，

每个人都有自我尊严，而且也非常敏感。

什么是自我尊严呢？

引用一个小故事告诉你们。

有一天，一名刚毕业的记者，为了收集一些报导的资料，

便于一名出道已久的前辈出席了一场宴会。

当然当中有不少的知名人士，当他想上前去跟某一位知名人士打招呼时

，那名所谓的知名人士，眼神划过该名记者，

眼里只有前辈。

连说话也不望他一眼，

该名记者的尊严严重的被伤害。

信心完全跌落谷底。

虽然只是一小段故事，

但是我们日常生活中都时常发生类似的事情。

没错，

自我尊严就是，

每个人其实都希望被重视，不受冷漠。

该名记者虽然是刚毕业，但是他也是好不容易才拿到的一张成为记者的文凭啊！

难道因为他的职位不高，他的努力就应该被忽视？

难道简单的一个眼神交流就如此的困难？

一个眼神就是一个肯定。

谈话中，正视别人的眼睛，眼神的交流是非常的重要，

而且也是一个最基本的尊重。

如果，连最基本的尊重也做不到，

无论你是多么的能干，有实力，

但是其实你在别人眼中什么都不是。

因为你不会尊重他人。

要记住，

一个肯定的眼神往往是一个人继续向前走的动力。

如果一个简单的眼神可以帮助一个人重拾信心，

那何乐而不为啊？

戏如人生，人生如戏

什么是戴着面具的人？

那就是明明自己是不开心的，还要强颜欢笑。。

也不懂自己笑得多难看。

明明是心事重重，但是却要装着我的生活很实在，

没有烦恼。

难道不能用真面目对待别人吗？

有人说，

“信任”这种东西，在你渐渐长大的时候，

它，

会离你越来越远。

并不是你不要信任，而是防人之心不可无。

不管你有多么的伤心，不开心，

绝对不能在别人面前呈现出来，

尤其是在你觉得不信任的人面前。

因为你不知道什么时候他会送你一程。

而且，

他也不会为你的失落而感到失落，他不落井下石，你应该很庆幸了。

所以，

为什么那么多人会戴上面具？

因为现实社会就是有那么多这样的人。

很多事情是因为你相信了，所以才会受伤。

因此，有人为了保护自己，为自己戴上面具。

永远把自己的脆弱埋起来。

但是，

戴上面具的人，永远是在演戏，

这一幕完了，还会有下一幕等着你去演。

真是戏如人生，人生如戏啊~

大家勇敢的演吧!!

看最后是谁得最佳演员吧~

分享

看了一个节目，觉得里面的人物说话的观点很值得令人思考，并且可以更了解自己是什么样类型的人。

你身边有这样的人吗?

1.某人做事，只要找到一个目标，他便富有牺牲的精神，甚至根本不考虑牺牲的是什么。

2.某人答应对方我要为你付出的，我要为你做到的，往往是在日后某人不一定做到的，又或者某人已经后悔了。

Working life~:)

Long time I didn’t update my blog. I think I have promise somebody will update my blog to share my working life. 13^th June was the first day at the company. There had one thing that was surprised me. A Cantonese slogan “ The world is small!!”. One of my colleagues was knew my ex-housemate. They are same school during the secondary school. After that, there have another one case, which is also my colleagues, she was knew my current housemate, they also knew each others for 10 ten years! Sound weird right? I become “middle” person between them.

Opps, seem like I out of topic already. :)

Alright, let me share some experience of my working life. Currently I am work as a trainee software developer. The company was concentrate on TDN which means that will convert the input file that given by sender to xml file, then sent it to receiver. This was just the big picture of how was the process of translation is. Task will be given almost everyday, what I need to do was update or write some custom code with using C++ language based on customer requirement. Besides that, there have others language that used by company which included C#, java, linus and so on. Some projects are included e-catalogue, CRM, web-portal, scanpack and mobile.

The working environment was quite good, it not really stress and all people are nice, they take care of trainee and have some briefing to let us know the working flow of each department. Hopefully I can learn a lot in that company~J

Another stage for my life

Well, after we all have been survived all those late night study session and final exam,

what's the next step?

Some of us maybe confused what we can do after graduate from university.

For me,

maybe this is the time to see the world in the different way.

Nowadays, is very hard for people to be enjoy in the moment,

people always thinking what I'm going to do next?

But,

you never realize that what's happening right in front of you.

In our life, the most important thing is not just to reach the goal or the destination,

whereas is are you enjoying that moment in front of your life?

That's the most important thing.

Actually it's not necessary about to arriving at a certain goal in life,

the important thing is about what you've learn along the way in the journey

and enriches you as a human being.

So,

always keep your mind about what you see before reach the destination.

Always remember to "smell the roses".

Appreciate what's happening around you but not just focusing on the goals.

Leaving was just another beginning,

we need to learn to go with the flow,

and learn how to be ready for that.

My lovely friend,

One day, we will meet with each other again. :)

夜半心事

一个人能活多久？60年？70年？还是80年？

人生无常，好端端的一个人，怎么会突然说离开就离开了？

忙碌了一辈子，为孩子辛苦了一辈子，根本来不及享福，就离开了。

虽然平时的长辈对我们凶巴巴的，可是他们做的都是为孩子好，只是他们没有表达。

老人家就是这样，他们都默默做，从来不希望报答，默默地为孩子付出，直到他们没能力为止。

可是最后？得到的是什么？会是孩子的嫌弃？孩子的不闻不问？还是能够尽一个孩子应有的责任，好好孝顺他们到晚年？

一辈子了就这样走完了，往往才后悔未能来得及为父母做些什么。

伤心后悔后，生活还是得继续过。这就是现实的残酷。

在这时候，时间是最好的良药，能把情绪安抚。。

可是，心里的伤，能够随着时间逐渐消逝吗？

如果能，那需要多久？

父母，是把我们带到来这个世界的人，用了他们的一生养育我们，教育我们，

而我们必须做的，只是很简单的一件事，那就是好好孝顺他们，不要等到失去了才后悔。。

虽然是很普通的一句话，可是有多少个人能真正的体会当中意义？

一个人的成长，对这句话的领悟有不同的阶段。而我，现在是什么阶段？

看着你流泪，我的心好痛。

安慰你唯一最好的方法唯有在你身边默默陪着你。

听你说话，听你一边述说你跟他的一点一滴，一边流泪，

而我能做的，除了在你身边为你擦眼泪，其他的什么我都帮不上忙。。。。。

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2D1N Malacca Trip - Part II

Finally I got my time to continue my part two~

Here we go~our 2nd day at Malacca!!

We all just wake up~face "fat fat"

Ji Li Fan~nice to eat o~

Curi tangkap at toilet while waiting someone~^^

Reach Wonderland jor~happy happy!!

Again photo time~

Guess what we doing?

They all don't know “大祸临头”!!

被洪水灌溉~爽！

说好一起下，可是黑衣那个迫不及待了~^^

2D1N trip-Malacca (Part I)

15th and 16th Jan, I had a enjoy and happy Malacca trip with my housemate.

(Sun, Yuan, Jia, Sam, Ting, Wen, Chong, and me)

That trip gave me a memorable and sweet memory since this was the first time we had a trip together.

Thanks to Mee sun

since she was the person who suggested us to have a family trip before we graduate.

and Thanks to all of them too~ (",)

Let's explore what we had experience in 2D1N trip at Malacca!

Our Breakfast at BP

Finish eat and photo time~

On the way~Nice shoot~

Take a rest and photo time again~

Reach our destination! yeah~

The first thing we do~have a lunch 1st! ~hungry~ "Pai Gu Mian"

Again photo time~==!!

At "Hong Wu"-automatic we stand and pose~haha~

At Bukit St Paul

"Qian Cheng Gao" original -RM8.50

Durian Puff-RM12/12pc

1st time try to eat "Cou Dou Fu" =.=

"Bing Tang Hu Lou" -chocolate flavour~

"Bing Tang Hu Lou" -original flavour~

Enjoy ourself ==!

(Taming Sari under maintenance)

------------------------------To be continued------------------------------

Facebook-Good or Bad?

Facebook, a popular name among those who are so into it. People who have an account in Facebook almost spend most of their time to socialize with other people. I am one of them who use Facebook frequently. I had been used Facebook since last two years, and I found that Facebook serves numerous advantages, it also proves to have certain disadvantages as well. There have several reason that log in to Facebook was one of the task that I will do in everyday. The main reason was the update announcement made by faculty or lecturer, will be spread out by friends via Facebook. Hence, I will not miss out any important announcement or news especially during the final exam, so that I will not going to miss any tips that given by lecturer.

Besides, I can search my friends via Facebook since this was an online networking services and popular among the young crowd regardless of the age, race and country. Every young people, even old people are having an account of Facebook. So, it can help me search my old friend and new friend more easily.

As I said before, Facebook also have its disadvantages as well if we used it in improper way. Rampant addiction was the most serious problem at that moment. Some of us were used it by just log in to play game, view status and video posted by friend and so on. All those activities were wasting time and contributed wide-range procrastination. Facebook was seriously influent daily life of those people who were addicted in it. There had a news that impressed me which was happened in China. A grandfather tied his grandson more than 10 hours due to his grandson addicted to Facebook. His grandfather adviced him for many time but failed. Hence, his grandfather forces to treat him that way to stop him by using Facebook.

As a conclusion, Facebook increase the communication and connection between friends and online community, but it also increase the risk of procrastination and makes it easier for others to stalk a user. In my opinion, Facebook maybe can have some improvement of the system to overcome shortcomings of Facebook especially security problem and accuracy of information.

Joy and happy moment

Long time I didn't go to Pavilion shopping with him due to we both also busy in work and study,

So, after settle my interview,

we take an opportunity to hang out together. :)

I found there have change a lot in Kuala Lumpur.

What surprised me was there have a lot of shop around the area of Pavilion.

It can be consider as a shopping street!

Is really excited me!

Fahrenheit, a new building next to Starhill.

I miss the chance to shop over there before, because I at Uni during the sales time. :(

This time, again I miss the chance since not enough budget~

all because my uni's HEP was delay banking to us.

We've go to Pavilion, Sungai Wang, Lot 10, Fahrenheit,

since the new year is coming, I saw there have a lot decoration in each shopping center.

However, the most beautiful decoration was stated in Pavilion.

There have 4 drums in front of the main entrance,

every people can try to beat drum to pray for health, wealth, and so on.

So, you can hear the sound of drum everywhere you at pavilion.

After walk around, we went to watch movie-"Season in the Witch".

This was really nice movie, which talk about demon and witch.

Let's beat the drum to pray for my FYP get a good result~

Happy "Rabbit" Year!

Mak and Crystal

While waiting food~photo time~

Lunch time at Weissbrau at Pavilion

I love this one!

The new shop at Pavilion~Bat Man~

Green color "Pan Men"~

I am inside the frame :)

Run out from frame~XP

要改变，反自己吧

脾气多了，笑容少了；

糊涂多了，细心少了；

烦恼多了，睡眠少了；

现实多了，热情少了；

比较多了，自在少了；

是非多了，信任少了；

心事多了，开心少了。

每个人都有以上的经历，这都是成长的路程。

但是这样的生活很累，也不精彩，

要改变必须要勇敢的跨出去，突破自己的界限，

要做到就惟有一个方法，

那就是“造反”！

没错，跟自己造反。

反自己的不好的坏脾气，但是不代表我会顺从接受，

因为人，总是会有脾气的，只要不超过界限，都可以忍耐的。

然后是反自己不可要的糊涂性格...

不要糊涂的说错话，得罪了别人也不懂发生什么事。

更需要反自己爱比较的态度！

与其比较，不如向别人虚心请教，学习。

如果，真要比的话，

跟自己比吧，自己永远是你最大的敌人。

其实，我觉得我们的好坏就好像我们身上的红血球与白血球。

当身体抵抗力低，红血球会大量死亡，

就好象我们定力不够，毅力不够坚定，就会容易受影响。

当红血球死亡后，在血液中变成毒素。

这时，白血球就像我们的敌人，

试图发挥它们的杀菌功能，吞噬红血球死尸，刺激白血球过度产生，因而导致癌症。

所以，我们要时时都提高警惕，

把自己身上得免疫力提高，让自己的红血球不受影响。

不然，面临的随时可能会是“癌症”。

这可是拖累我们一辈子的啊！