Saturday, November 28, 2009

妻子眼泪往肚里吞的日子。。。(下)

就这样,妻子时常都没有好日子过,每天早上天还没亮就必须生火,煮饭给家公家婆。 当全家人在饭厅里吃饭,妻子则在厨房里清洗锅炉,等大家吃完了,才在厨房里吃“站着吃”剩菜。这样的日子长达七八年之久…

直到有一年,家公病倒了,妻子打电报叫丈夫赶回来。丈夫赶快从城市赶回乡下,还没进到爸爸的房间,就听见爸爸对这妻子大声怒骂:

“你这扫把精, 都是你!我们家是倒大霉才会娶到你这种媳妇!以前我儿子又乖又孝顺,经常回家探望我,现在,我都快死了, 就是因为你,他才不想回来看我!你看你,没学历,笨笨的,又不会说话,不懂得让我儿子开心,时常只会躲在厨房里,有什么用??你去死好了….”

丈夫站在房门外,眼眶闪着泪水,他知道,是他错了

是他对不起和他结婚十二年的妻子。

为了掩饰他在外面有别的女人,没念什么书的妻子忍受着家公的指责,歧视,甚至精神虐待,而她,却毫无怨言的,
把一切的一切,往自己身上扛…..

正当丈夫感到“自责,惭愧”的时候,妻子含着泪水从家公房间走出来;一见到丈夫,泪水更是如水龙头般留下,可是,妻子没哭出声音,妻子猛擦眼泪,捂住嘴,对丈夫说

“你回来啦,吃过饭没?...赶快把西装脱下,休息一下!”

此时,丈夫叫妻子先回房休息,而他,走进爸爸的房间,跟躺在床上的爸爸说:“爸,请你不要再责怪舒梅了,是我自己在外面有女人,舒梅因为不要我为难,所以才找借口搬回来住。爸,一切的都是我的错…不要再怪舒梅了。”

家公一听,才知道自己那么多年来错怪了媳妇,也气得差点痛打儿子。后来,家公把媳妇叫到房间来,向她道歉,说过去冤枉她,非常对不起她,希望媳妇能原谅她。说到激动处,家公还差点跪在地上,请求媳妇原谅儿子在外面有女人的荒唐。

后来,丈夫良心发现,知道自己不应抛下妻子孩子,决定主动和那女人分手,回到妻子身边。

“舒梅,对不起,你为了我,忍受这么久的痛苦与委屈,我们结婚十多年,我现在才要从新认识你,希望不会太迟。”

希望你们用心看完这则故事,
看完后,又什么感想?

如果你是故事中的妻子,你会想故事中的情节一样,忍声吞气,到最后丈夫良心发现,真心真意回到你身边?还是当你知道丈夫外面有女人时,使出一吵二闹三上吊的招数?让他,为了避免你做傻事而回到你身边?

还是你会像报章上的新闻一样,带着孩子自杀

杀害自己的丈夫?到时候的头版就非你莫属了。

的确,要“宽容,原谅”一个伤害你至深的人,是很难做到的,也需要很大的勇气;可是,只要心中“少点怨,多点宽容”,

破碎的感情仍然可以“走出阴霾,喜见阳光”的!


(完)

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes....i totally agree with the meaning of the story. Thats the reason i never get angry with you when you done some thing wrong. Remember what did i said to you when you done some thing wrong to me? This story teach us a great morale in our life. If you want to learn it,the 1st thing is - you must know how to control your own temper.

美婷 said...

"少点怨,多点宽容"....My dear sister remember to treat me nicer sikit...hahaha

SHeLYN said...

lou tai,这篇故事真的很感人。我们往往都是在失去后才懂得珍惜。而且偏偏要有人受了伤害才肯罢休。世事难料,家家有本难念的经。请珍惜身边的人。只有容忍,还有宽容,才能体会到真正的爱情原来一直在我们身边。(^^.)

SHeLYN said...

hahaha...lou tai...got ppl comment oso no response...don noe do wat 8 home...
oopss...not at home...ord got license sure everyday drive out right?
hahaha...
got car very convenient de...
don every night go drink a...
hahaha...

牡羊座的我~ said...

shelyn,我在写这篇文章的时候,想起你曾经跟我提起的往事,希望这篇文章能够为你带来一些启发,并带给你身边的人。凡事不要计较那么多,我们会活得更开心。:-)

牡羊座的我~ said...

my dear sister, i remember wat did you tell me last time when you call me. i will treat you more nicer. but i don't think i have complain you wo....haha...

牡羊座的我~ said...

i do remember what did you said last time.i know sometime i cant control my temper, and i am a people with poor memory, so you need to always remind me when i do something wrong or forgot something. haha..hope you can pay more patient lo..^^

美婷 said...

Hehehe...I jus said treat me nicer sikit nia.. i din say u complain me. Wat i say to u le?? hehe.Coz i tin i told u so many tins. i believe every story, every event and every single thing there are many things for us to learn wif. U will get something when u r de people who r smarter n noe how to appreciate de noeledge behind n utilise it in life.

[¥]ou [₩]ill [₦]ever [₩]alk [Ѧ]lone said...

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